For co-parents
ConKarma works the way co-parented households work: kids belonging to both Cells, custody-aware calendars, separate subscriptions per parent, privacy boundaries that respect both adults. Not 'one app on Mom's phone' or 'one app on Dad's phone' — one shared spine, two homes.
ConKarma is built for the way co-parented households actually work — one shared spine across two homes, not one app on Mom's phone or one app on Dad's. Each adult creates their own private Cell, and kids join both via invite; they see one consolidated experience, but their data stays scoped to whichever Cell they're acting inside. A custody-aware calendar marks whose home each day is on, fires pick-up reminders only to the parent dropping off, and layers under regular events.
Privacy boundaries hold between the adults: what you do in your Cell — your journal, your reward catalog, your DNA — stays in your Cell, and the other parent sees only the cross-Cell shared layer like the calendar and kid mission progress. Subscriptions are separate too, so there's no shared payment, and kids in both Cells inherit Family-tier benefits without paying twice.
Each adult creates their own Cell. Kids join both via invite — they see one consolidated experience but their data stays scoped to whichever Cell they're acting inside. Switch context with a long-press on the kid's avatar. Mom's mood data isn't visible to Dad, but kids' missions span both homes by design.
Mark the custody schedule once. The shared calendar shows whose home each day is on, layered under regular events. Pick-up reminders fire to the parent dropping off, not both. Vacations / school breaks override per the schedule you defined.
No shared payment, no awkward Venmo for half. Each parent subscribes for their own Cell membership; kids in both Cells inherit Family-tier benefits without paying twice. Receipts go to the paying parent, not the other one.
What you do in your Cell stays in your Cell — your journal, your couples surface (if you have one), your reward catalog, your DNA. Kids see what their kid-role grants them. Other parents see only the cross-Cell shared layer (calendar, kid mission progress).
For the child, the calendar reads as one week — "Mom's week", "Dad's week", the school day, the football practice, the orthodontist. The two parent-cells flow into a single Maya-rooted view from the kid's side. Neither parent sees the other's cell; only Maya sees the unified shape. The seam stays where it belongs — between the adults — and the kid gets the calm one-life view.
When the parent-kid or kid-other-parent thread frays, the cross-generational repair flow walks both sides through it. Role-aware prompts (a parent reaching to a teen picks from a different template set than a teen reaching to a parent). Curated content + structured forms, no AI in the middle — long version at /blog/why-conflict-tools-are-not-ai-mediated. Works across both cells without requiring either parent to install the other's calendar.
Each parent owns their cell. Either can disable a feature for their cell — turning off Truth-or-Dare Ember if a household never enters adult zones, toggling Wishbook off in a cell that doesn't want affiliate links. The other parent's cell is unaffected; the kid sees the union of what each cell exposes. Permanent-flag operations (true deletes) require a two-eye admin gate per /security.
Yes. What you do in your Cell stays in your Cell — your journal, any couples surface, your reward catalog, your DNA. The other parent sees only the cross-Cell shared layer, like the calendar and kid mission progress.
No. Each parent subscribes for their own Cell membership, with no shared payment and no awkward Venmo for half. Kids in both Cells inherit Family-tier benefits without paying twice, and receipts go only to the paying parent.
You mark the custody schedule once, and the shared calendar shows whose home each day is on, layered under regular events. Pick-up reminders fire to the parent dropping off rather than both, and vacations or school breaks override per the schedule you defined.
The child sees one consolidated week — Mom's week, Dad's week, the school day, practices — flowing into a single view rooted in them. Neither parent sees the other's cell; only the child sees the unified shape, so the seam stays between the adults and the kid gets a calm one-life view.
ConKarma is free, with optional Premium and Family upgrades. Available on iOS, Android, Apple Watch, Wear OS, Windows, Linux, and the web — one account, every surface in sync.